Seawal pagi ini, menerima panggilan dr kakak di KL. Katanya Makcik Bibah telah pulang ke rahmatullah pukul 4 pagi tadi selepas lebih seminggu di ICU Ampang Puteri. Inna lillahhi wainna hilaiirojiun. Tiada apa yangg boleh diperkatakan lagi. As expected….arwah sudah tidak boleh bercakap dan sudah tidak sedarkan diri semasa admitted. If I’m not mistaken..she’s abt 84 years old.
Kami jarang berjumpa…probably 2 tahun sekali. Selama ini hanya mengenali Makcik Bibah sebagai kakak my mom yang tinggal di Ampang Jaya. Masa kecil dahulu selalu mengkagumi famili makcik Bibah sbg English speaking family..They speak English macam kita berus kain tu..shreh shreh shreh…..lancar . Her husband (also an arwah now) and her are only government servants, tetapi kan org tua dulu2 yg tinggal di bandar, ramai yg berpendidikan Inggeris... So kiranyer mereka ni di mataku ialah org2 yg berpendidikan jugalah. Another reason why I admire her family..she is so close with her anak2. They are like friends..they can talk about anything. Now I wonder how her children is taking this loss..
She did visit me a few years back. Walaupun sekejap tapi sangat2 dihargai sebab dialah yg paling tua dalam salahsilah keluarga my mom and she still want to come to my pondok buruk….Dlm keuzurannya itu, digagahi juga bertongkat turun naik tangga.
Ketiadaan Makcik Bibah pasti kurasakan. Setiap kali hari raya arwah akan menziarah kami di hari raya pertama.( Opsss..sepatutnya yg adik menziarah yg kakak tetapi in my mom case ..terbalik kot sikit..) Habis diangkutnya semua anak beranak cucu cicit berkonvoi ke rumah. The last time I saw her was during raya two years ago. . She said to me …..Adik (that’s my panggilan manja among the family..okies….shhh..dont tell anyone!!)….lama betul cik Bibah tak pegi Penang. Teringin nak pegi tapi tak larat dah sekarang ni..jalan pun dah macam robot ni..sapa nak layan. Nanti org lain sebok nak shopping, cik Bibah sebok nak baring..She was saying it with laughter..
I didn’t get to see her during raya last year as I was in Pasir Mas, Kelantan.. Semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama2 org yg beriman dan beramal soleh. Amin.To Abang Hashim, Kak Chah, Abang Din dan Abang Lah…banyak2 kan bersabar yer.
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